Week4 10/4 What Are My Greatest Strengths and Weaknesses?

Fixed Topic: What Are My Greatest Strengths and Weaknesses?

My greatest weaknesses are…..

•  Lacking of Self Confidence (I mentioned it in my previous blog.)

•  Comparing Myself with Others

I tend to think I don't have greater ability to do anything compared with other people. Everyone, except for me, has some better abilities than others, but I don't have. I am just an ordinary person. I am always in average. I can never defeat anyone. This is my fundamental thought. (Tooooo negative! ) So, my thought starts with comparing with others. lol

•  Not Thinking Deeply

I seldom consider something. Despite reflecting on something, I always rely on instinct to make a decision. Sometimes it brings about good results, but mostly, it ends up in devastating consequences…. And because I’m not used to thinking deeply, I tend to make irresponsible comments as soon as I come up with it…. 

•  Hesitating to do something new

It takes too much time for me to take a new step, because I have no courage to do so. For me, it is so difficult to start a new part-time job, join new club activity, and speak to a new person….

• Being Short-Tempered

I cannot wait for someone for a long time. (My limit is waiting for about 10 minutes or so...) As soon as I notice someone getting in my way, I lose my temper a little bit….Be slow to anger, quick to be friend XO

As I have no self confidence, it is difficult to come upon with my strengths….hmm

My greatest strengths are…

•  Being Earnest (Sometimes)

I can devote myself to a challenge earnestly. The other day my friends said I was so earnest to do anything. But I don’t think so. I always think I mustn’t be a perfectionist, so I actually have intention to scamp my work, but….?

•  Longing for Something Different from Others

I don’t like the same things as others have. Even if there are good ideas, I try to come up with another idea. I think it is a kind of creativity. But it seems to be contradictory to my weakness I mentioned above….?  

•  Not Taking Too Seriously

It is a reverse side of my weakness, not thinking deeply. I seldom worry over anything, so I can think I have less stress than others. Such optimistic may be good now, but it may bring me danger in the future, I think…. (At that point, I’m not optimistic.)

• Having Strong Tie

I have just a few friends compared with others, but the relationship between the friends and me is so strong. I can open my heart to all the friends and they can, too. With my friends of kindergarten, elementary school, junior high, high school, preparatory school, ICU, and so on, I keep in touch now.

I cannot come up with my strengths any more!! I have to find them in my ICU life from now.....